Yes! You may ask questions. Every reading and spirit is very unique, and they may give you answers to some of your questions, but please be aware that they may not give you all the answers.
Your life is yours to live, experience and learn, and they will not interfere with your personal growth and experience here by telling you what you should do or giving you “all the answers” to life…we are here to figure them out for ourselves. They will many times, however, offer their advice or guidance, or alert you to things you may need to be more aware of in your life or future.
One important note to remember, is that when I “open up” I never know who will come through. It is like I am picking up a telephone and I do not know who will answer on the other end. Sometimes your neighbor from 30 years ago or an old friend from school will come through…often someone you have not thought about in many years. People always ask “what are they doing here” especially if it was not a close relation or friend…and when the person asks me why are they coming through? I say, because they can! Just as you are excited to speak with them, so they are they to speak with you. This is a rare and magical opportunity for both sides, never forget that.
Please also understand that many times spirits are asking me to deliver information and messages that I do not personally understand. This information may be related to their medical condition or work in life, for example. Some of the information may be out of my personal scope of understanding or knowledge and with that said, I will do my best to describe to you the nature of what is being shown or described to me by your loved one. I do not need you to give me information, but I may need you to validate what I am describing or help me to understand the nature of the information that I am receiving. My job is to deliver the messages from your loved ones as clearly and accurately as I can to you, and I may not always understand what the message means…but you will.